Beauty in Pain Warriors
Labels: Beauty in Pain, Blog Reader, Books
Labels: Beauty in Pain, Blog Reader, Books
Gifts are wonderful. There is no other way to say it. Gifts make you feel good and strengthen the knowledge that someone is thinking of you. When you're lucky, they also enhance your life.
Did you know that you could also experience the gift of people? Whenever a person lends their time to help that's what you're getting, a precious present.
We all need to pitch in and help. This life is too short to only think of ourselves. God loves when we help His children. Consider gifting your time today.
*Posts you may enjoy:
Help Our World
I'm Blessed
Serve Humanity Through Charity Water
Alice Benton's Blog wishes Ariana S. a very happy birthday! May God bless and keep you. Enjoy your special day!
Labels: Birthday Shout Outs
They say that misery loves company. We've heard this catchy, but horrible phrase our entire lives. The statement makes you wonder. Misery can be defined by a state or circumstance, but either way, it is always in relation to suffering. What is misery? And, why does it adore company? Well, the second question got me thinking...things cannot carry affection or attachment. Misery is not a what, it's a who.
When dealing with children and tasks, loving adults are quick to pose a question. They ask, are you doing your best? Of course, the answer varies from child to child, however, it is offered up to each for the same reason. That query is a fundamental effort to practice values. Adults want children to know what's important.
Tears can represent so many emotions. There's sadness, joy and the feeling of being overwhelmed or of relief. There are also those times when why isn't exactly clear.
It is my belief that our tears are more important than we realized. I think our tears are holy. They cleanse us from the inside out. They're our personal internal waterfall, which was instilled by the master architect--God. They were designed to release a flood, if necessary, to wash away our pain when most needed.
Think about how you feel after a good cry. No matter what is going on, we usually feel a little better at the very least. Most feel much better having flushed their body with such emotion.
Decide not to feel shameful while tearing up. Embrace your tears. Acknowledge that God has given you built in sanctification and know all is well.
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Confidence is extremely important, regardless of where it's applied. Not only can it put pep in your step, it is a wonderful self-promoter. People who demonstrate it usually are not overlooked.
Most rarely remember to show confidence when it comes to their abilities. They sing praises for others less capable, but never adaquately mention their own. At work, the skills they possess are down played only to be followed by time wasted wondering why you didn't get the job.
You know when you're good at something and so does everyone else. They may not admit to that knowledge, but you should. Don't be cocky, just state your truth. There is nothing wrong with displaying your talent, as long as you're honorable about it. Acknowledge what you've got while giving God all the glory.
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While holding my grandson I experienced such an endearing moment. I held him to my chest as he slept. His face was pointing outward as he rested on my right shoulder. My ear was leaning against the back of his sweet head. I had my left hand on his back while the other secured the snuggling position. And, I could hear his heart beat.
There was an instance when his heart beat was all I could hear. It was amazing. It thumped in the way that small a child's does--special. I was overcome with love.
I recalled my God is Love post, as love surged through our bodies from heart to heart. I thought, this is a great time to introduce God into his being. My grandson now knows that he is truly never alone. He now knows that God lives inside of him and he can tell Him anything. He now knows that God watches and protects him, even when grandma cannot. He also knows as the bible says...as for me and my house, we shall serve the Lord!
Speak blessings into your little one's heart today.
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The right role model can be great, but there is no way to tell if yours is exceptional. Remember they are just people who make mistakes too. Holding a person up to an unatural standard can be disappointing.
Never wait for upsets, but if they come don't take it too personal; be kind. If you have a role model, recognize them for who they are, which is a person that excels in certain ways. Celebrate their achievements, without placing them above the rest. All is not lost when someone falls off the pedestal you've created for them.
The great thing about them is how they have affected you in a positive manner. Be prepared to pick up whatever you have already learned and run with it. You have everything you need to be successful. Strut your stuff, and before you know it someone will find you role model worthy.
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Labels: Self
As you lie down on your pillow, either before going to sleep or afterwards when waking up, talk to God. There are always many things to discuss. It can be private time that you use to speak with your Father.
Tell Him everything, which includes intimate things that no one else needs to hear. Also complain and ask for things. Let Him know when you're in trouble, after all, that's what dads are for. Share the good in life too. And, remember to praise Him because that's what good children do.
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Labels: God
I am happy to announce that I will be at Greetings & Readings in Hunt Valley, Maryland! The Beauty in Pain book signing will be held on Saturday, August 27, 2011 from 1:00 to 3:00 PM.
I'm honored that Greetings & Readings has allowed me to stop in and sign some books. I'm excited about appearing in Hunt Valley, MD and cannot wait to meet you there at the signing.
I encourage you to purchase your copy of Beauty in Pain prior to the event, if possible. If not, don't worry about it, we've got you covered. I look forward to saying hello and autographing your copy of Beauty in Pain. As always, I wish you happy reading and hope to see you there.
*Posts you may enjoy:
Beauty in Pain - Available Now
My Beauty in Pain Review - Part I
Reasons To Love Beauty in Pain
Check out Greetings & Readings.
Labels: And Me, Author, Beauty in Pain, Books
There are rules to just about everything. They may be an attached literary certainty or unspoken. Either way, the rules still exist.
Many people don't like to follow the rules. It makes them feel like they are falling in line. That is a sentiment that makes them angry.
We all have to face it, the rules can change, but so can the results. Always keep in mind that rules were made to produce a desired affect. When you willingly change them, you are tampering with the result you receive.
It's true, some rules were meant to be broken, but not all of them. Ask yourself, if the adjustments you are making are going to give you what it is you seek. Also, if you want to obtain something, are you doing the things you need for the right results?
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Labels: Self
Labels: Self, Writing, Writing Tip
If you have ever wondered why I write the things I do, please ask. It can be regarding the past, present and even future projects. You can type your questions in the comments of this post, or under the appropriate post that was previously listed.
Thank you and I wish you happy continued reading.
I'm always trying to help a woman out with the expansion of her wardrobe. That particular assistance usually comes from things I have found to help myself or cute things I have noticed. Here are a few examples on how to extend your style without handing over more money.
A few simple items can move your look foward while also giving you more options. If you already have them in your posession great. You can learn how to put those items on double duty. If not, you'll have to buy them, but it will be worth the purchase.
Necessary Items For Expansion
1. Leggings - You need a plain, everyday color that can easily be mixed and matched. Wear with a) a dress, b) long tee shirt or c) sweater.
2. Oversized Tube Top - I prefer a tube top with a loose fitting middle, instead of the traditional fit that lays on the body. This can be worn as a) a top above the waist, as b) a top whose bottom falls below the bottom with leggings, as c) a dress, if you can pull it off, or as d) a skirt.
3. Sundress - Any kind will do, but I think you should pick one that you love the bottom of independently. Of course, you can wear it as a) a sundress or b) as a skirt. One day wear it with a cardigan, which by the way can take it through seasons. Another wear it with a regular blouse or blazer to change up the look.
Remember, A sharpened eye with a unique flare can change your clothings outlook. Have fun with what you wear!
*Posts you may enjoy:
Clothing Scare
Fashion Trend Dos & Don'ts
It's All About Accessories
What Makes You Feel Attractive?
If you read yesterdays post, you know that I have been reading my newly published novel, Beauty in Pain. For your information, there are only five parts. I talked about Part's One - Three. Tonight, I have finished and will share my thoughts on Part's Four & Five.
Thank you for sharing this journey with me. It has been humbling and wonderful to say the least. I look forward to discussing it in some type of open forum with you in detail.
Three things stood out to me in Part Four. First, sometimes we simply have to do things that we don't want. Second, people often pay too much attention to the wrong thing. And third, the ways of the world vs. the ways of the Lord are two very different things.
Part Five shows there are good and bad ways to deal with issues, which includes the men and women we deal with in our lives. Sometime we willing walk into situations that are clearly trouble. It also show that we can always make a difference and perception is everything. Last, but not least, we...you can survive anything. So when things are rough just hold on because it will get better.Overall, life has its moments of happiness and despair, but I promise you God is good everyday.
*Posts you may enjoy:
Beauty In Pain - Available Now
My Beauty in Pain Review Part I
Reach for Him
Labels: Author, Beauty in Pain, Books, God, Self
Labels: Author, Beauty in Pain, Books, Self
This past weekend was a constant reminder to trust in the Lord. Bad things would happen or someone would let me down; leaving me feeling crushed. Every time I began to give in to being defeated, I was shown that I'm not alone.
Reality was holding me down because I failed to rise and put on my spiritual suit. I was feeding into the natural. Things and people were attempting to get me down. I didn't look to my supernatural Father.
We have to remember whose child we really are & things will be okay. Our powerful Father has placed the ability to get through all things inside us. Remain armed with His word. And know that all is truly well.
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Labels: God, Relationships
This is a post that I previously displayed on my friend's blog -- http://www.zazoosworld.blogspot.com. I hope you enjoy it!
Most people have a favorite teacher and honestly I could name many that have served me well. I have been blessed enough to have had good teachers from grade school all the way through college.
When I really sit down and think about which teacherin high school not only expanded my knowledge, but also widened my perception, it would have to be Mr. Chimenti.
Mr. Chimenti was my music teacher in high school. His love of song was contagious. Yes, of course he mentioned lots of groups that the typical teenager didn't want to hear about, but his passion for it made you pay attention.
The class was introduced to all forms ranging from Opera to the Beatles. Mr. Chimenti made me want to sing and learn more. His multi-faceted lessons fostered an open mindedness towards classic music and a love of the opera. His class enhanced my current life by adding culture to it.
Real teachers make you feel confident while relating to their subject matter. They also add substance and greatness to your life. Kudos to Mr. Cimenti, as well as all of the other great teachers!
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Labels: And Me
Today was a day that many blocks celebrated annual block parties. And, my block was no different. There were barbeques, music, a pool for the children and good times all around.
It didn't even slightly resemble the old versions. Back in the day, block parties were held separate, unlike the all-in-one cluster of present day. People from all over the neighborhood would fill the streets & party until early in the morning. It was a party of the year.
While things have changed, it was still all good. We danced, ate and enjoyed each others company. I'm not a porch person, yet tonight I was out and had real fun.
Here's to next year!
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Labels: 2011, Entertainment, Family Fun
If you are going through an angry stage in your life try to fight it. An angry disposition will not serve you well. And, it can also assist in moving you further from God. Anger, if you feed into it, can take over your body and cloud your mind.
Actively do your best to rid your body of angry feelings. When you are mad do everything in your power not to be. Embrace happiness every chance you get. It will make you feel better.
Your attitude affects the days flow and people around you. So, make it a good one. Spread joy and love, instead of hostility. Make sure the day goes better because you cared.
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I have waited a long time for Beauty in Pain to be released. I view this novel as very important. As I have stated before, I started writing Beauty in Pain for one reason, but in the end, I published this novel for you. I kept thinking things like people need this or this could help someone.
Not only is Beauty in Pain a story that anyone can relate to, it's wonderfully unique and entertaining. Trust me, there is something in it for everyone. My entire heart and soul went into its creation.
If you have ever gone through something and wondered if you'll survive it or maybe you're currently experiencing a trial that you don't feel you can make it through, Beauty in Pain is for you. It's filled with life lessons. It's a great story that is overflowing with inspiration.
It is my prayer that Beauty in Pain travel well beyond my singular reach. Please help me to spread it across the globe, one family, group or community at a time. Read it, love it, then help to get it out into the world. I need Beauty in Pain Warriors to support the cause. That can be done via word of mouth, in a blog post or even by encouraging a group of friends to order and read it together. Please let me know if you have an idea that will help.
Blessings always,
Alice Benton
Author of Beauty in Pain
*Posts you may enjoy are Beauty in Pain - Available Now, Beauty in Pain on Facebook and Reasons to Love Beauty in Pain.
Labels: Awareness, Beauty in Pain, Books
Many of us have causes we need to further, but lack the resources to make it happen. We believe that money is the bottom line, but isn't always. People are a value resource that everyone has access to, but most do not attempt to approach. Some friends, family and even the occasional, yet appropriate, stranger can be helpful. In fact, human resources can be the most important part of a successful cause.
If you find the right people to help, their intellectual property alone is priceless. Their collective brain power can make up for a bad financial situation. It can also find a cure for lack of money.
Do yourself a favor and ask for help when needed. Remember, we were meant to go through things together.
Labels: Awareness, Listening, Relationships
I'm keeping it really simple with this recipe! The reason you'll love it is because it's fast, delicious and easily altered. You'll also like that we're eye balling it instead of using exact measurements.
You'll need small nicely cut pieces of mahi mahi. FYI, I prefer small portions because each piece of fish is for an individual serving. Also required are gourmet tortillas, baby romaine salad, extra virgin olive oil, Pam butter spray, lemon juice, thousand island dressing and the following spices: pepper, seasoning salt, marjoram, thyme, bay leaves and garlic powder.
Cooking Directions
Cover the bottom of a skillet with extra virgin olive oil and warm on low. Once warmed, place mahi mahi inside pan and season. When seasoning, I like to completely cover the top with each spice, except the salt and garlic. I'm light with them because salt is a health no-no and garlic can over power the collective taste.
Sprinkle spices and let fish cook for approximately six minutes. Spray Pam and then flip fish over. Repeat cooking instructions again, but instead of turning fish over, pour a little bit of lemon juice on it. Heat gourmet tortilla then put baby romaine salad in the middle of it.
Next, place fish on top of salad and pour thousand island dressing onto fish. Fold the circle tortilla into a square; fold bottom up, fold top down and both sides into the middle. When you have finished folding it, turn it over onto a plate to serve.
Voila! Mahi Mahi Squares!
Ever reach for your go to outfit because it always looks great on you, only to find that now it just looks scary. Well, if that has happened, you need your clothes updated. You'll also need a trustworthy friend and brutal honesty from yourself.
The first thing you need to do is identify why your staple diggs no longer make you look good. As far as I know, it's either because your size or your style has changed. If your size has shifted, immediately get rid of the apparel that was already too big or small depending on whether you gained or lost weight. If it was because of style you'll have to do one of two things, shop til you drop or try to reinvent your wardrobe.
Clothing recreation can be tricky, although, it can be done. Have your friend help and use the brutal honesty to know what is and isn't working. Keep an open mind, attempt to wear things differently and use accessories in a unique manner. Thinking outside the fashion box can make some things appear brand new again.
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Who doesn't want to be the best? We all want to be on top of our game & stay there. Regardless of the field you are talking about, we want our talent to shine. While there are many ways to master a craft, there is only one way to remain an expert.
Believe it or not, practice does make perfect, or at least as close as you can get to it. Incorporate ways to study or have preparation time. It will help to make you better. Working on your skill set will move you in the right direction so stay busy.
Labels: Self
Alice Benton's Blog wishes you all a happy 4th of July! We gladly celebrate our Independence while reflecting on the importance of this day, which I will do in red, white and blue. God bless America!
Labels: Holidays
That old saying is true. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We, as people, often forget what being held us first. It was God; He is the master of all things lovely.
We are all very different. It is our differences that make us beautiful. Many are close minded toward true beauty because they have not yet evolved enough to see it. If you can recognize it know that you are blessed.
When someone says you are not beautiful they are exposing who they are, not you.
*Posts you may enjoy:
Reach For Him
What Makes You Feel Attractive.
I've been running around so much lately. There has been much to do. That wouldn't be bad if it was for the right things. I will not continue to allow small distractions to take me away from the big things in life.
Once I realized what happened, I refocused to stay on track. I delegated the little things and prioritized. I am now on alert! A disciplined mind keeps the well intentioned off that paved road to hell.
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Distractions
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Labels: Self