Oh That Tricky B...

Yeah, yeah, I know what you’re thinking, but this time the B stands for Beelzebub. You may know him by his many other names that include, but are not limited to Lucifer, the devil and fallen angel. Well, I want you to know that he’s not only trickier than you can imagine, he is also very clever too.

Honestly, his seemingly wonderful intellect is why so many become inundated by negative forces in their lives. Let’s face it, if his approach always screamed, “I’m literally your worst nightmare come to life.” We’d all run screaming for our Lord and Savior, but instead many disguises are used, so many caught off guard.

Know that God doesn’t want bad things for you in any form. So when it exists, you need to stop everything because that tricky b found a way to ride shotgun in your car. He may even be sitting next to you in your living room. The fallen one is hidden inside things we don’t think of as spiritual problems. That means, if there is anything that you should have dominion over, but instead, it is ruling you that is where you’ll find him.

Pray…use what God gave you to regain control over your life. That will vary for each person because our gifts are different. Get lost in His word and unleash it in your life!

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Have you been in need of a little inspiration? Well, there’s good and bad news. Which do you want to hear first? Typically, you start with the negative so there is something positive coming your way.

The bad news is if you’re uninspired, it’s probably you. The way you think can keep you closed off from the things and people you need. A simple attitude adjustment towards positivity can change everything.

The really good news is that inspiration can come from anywhere. You simply have to learn to see it. Train your mind to be opened to all the things that stimulate us.  Once you focus on the idea of a random creative combustion it will appear in varied forms, which includes people. And, before you know it, you’ll possess a personal muse of your own. 

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Commitment

Some days are extremely long. They can honestly feel like it's never ending. They're filled with all types of things you need to get done, which can be good, but it's still tiring. There will be moments when everything on your list is important and needs to be done today, except one.

The last item may be essential to someone else, so you don't have to do it. It can be very tempting to offer to help another day, but don't. Keep going because you made a commitment. Often, it is fairly easy to honor your obligation.

Yes, there are times when it is more important to cancel an appearance. After all, life can through some curve balls into a situation, but those circumstances will be obvious for the most part. Use your best judgment and be accountable because promises from you should be meaningful.


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The Museum at FIT

The Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT) is a wonderful college that has many great things to offer. Creativity literally exudes from the walls to great those in the building. It doesn't really matter where you are on campus your imagination is being stimulated. Even the library sports a man made out of books. One of the best ways heart and soul of FIT is excellently represented in its museum, which is entitled, the Museum at FIT.

This museum is a must see if you have a love for fashion. Although it's an interesting find for anyone. Currently, Sporting Life is being exhibited. It has been running since May 25th and will continue until November 5, 2011. This collection displays clothing through history right up to present day. If you have no knowledge of clothes pieces through time, it will educate you. Some of the fashion is not only remarkable, it's unbelievable. You will definitely leave with an appreciation for what we wear, as well as no longer use to adorn our bodies.

While I do suggest you visit this exhibit, which if free to the public, if it's not for you remember The Museum at FIT. It is always filled with wonderful surprises. In the past, First Lady, Michelle Obama's Inaugural Outfit was here too. So, stay on the look out for upcoming exhibitions!


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From the moment I woke up today, I was overly aware that my feeling was sort of somber. I wanted to log on and ‘say’ something, but repeatedly thought, what can I say? I was experiencing a loss for words and believe me that isn’t an easy task to accomplish. Usually, when I’m not speaking there is a reason that I have chosen not to, but this was different.

I woke up, followed my prayerful, as well as thankful routine, but was automatically reflective. I recalled September 11, 2001, so vividly. I thought heavily of the people I was with and our long journey home. I wanted to reach out to a particular friend, but didn’t know if she would want to talk about it…even after all of this time.

So much has happened in this last decade. Time has flown by for some, while it has moved much slower for others. We are progressing wonderfully, yet still trying to move past all that was lost. There are those of us that continue to deal with mental and physical illness from all that happened. 

We've come a long way. I salute every person that has done their part fighting towards a new and brighter future one day at a time. I know it isn’t easy. You help to inspire others to be and do well. May God continue to bless and keep you.

Honestly, if I told you all of the mental trips I went on today this post would be way too long. So I’ll end on my most important sentiments. May God bless all those lost who were lost, as well as all those who loved them and loves them still. May He continue to bless those who were wounded both physically and mentally. Also, thank you to all of the first responders and our troops…God bless you too.

God bless America & our world in Jesus' name, amen!

Links:

911memorial.org/

WTC Health Registry 

World Trade Center-Port Authority of New York & New Jersey

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B-Hive Lounge

Tonight was girls night out on the town. A couple of girlfriends and I were looking for a good spot to just chill and be happy. Well, we lucked out! The girls and I settled at a great spot, the B-Hive Lounge in Brooklyn, NY.

This spot is conveniently located on Atlantic Avenue near the corner of Grand Avenue and has much to offer its patrons. There are Reggae Mondays, Time Out Tuesdays, Caribbean Spice Wednesdays, After Work Thursdays, Blazin Hot Fridays, Sophisticated Saturdays and Soul Food Sundays plus much more to look forward to experiencing. The B-Hive's ambiance is wonderful. It consist of  a bar area in the front and huge dance floor in the back. The music kept people jumping to their feet and running to the dance floor.

They have also recently added food to this locale. The menu included a variety of choices which includes fried shrimp, salmon cakes and honey mustard wings to name a few delightful items. I tasted the fried shrimp, salmon cakes and french fries. The entire meal was scrumptious!

The night was fantastic & we will return!



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Raising Children

When it comes to your children you always want the best for them. In fact, that is exactly why you spend countless hours trying to teach them right from wrong. You've done your best to mold this person from birth into perfection and yet, they keep demonstrating characteristics you never factored into their lives.

Your child or children have somehow managed to become their own person. They do both things that you like and can't stand. The truth is they were always an individual, but their was a time when they reflected you more than themselves.

Honestly, the best any parent can do is guide them. Tell them all the things you needed to know, but were never told. Hopefully, the really important things stay with them and right decisions are made.

There most certainly will come a time when they do something that doesn't make you happy. That too is a part of life with children. Know that you were never supposed to save them from everything in the world. Beautiful things will happen, as well as mess ups, just be there for them. Reinforce, your love for your child and move forward in a positive. Also, never stop praying for them and yourself.


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