Relationships

Relationships can be fickle.  The beginning often gives a false sense of warmth and stability.  It’s all about attraction and intrigue.  Regardless of whether you’ve become sexual or not, it’s hard not to sit around imagining waking up next to the person you love.  The instant jolt you get from the newness of it all can be intoxicating.             

It’s that emotional perplexity that often causes confusion.  One person is picturing happily ever- after, while the other depiction is of tonight.   We have to learn to live inside an enjoyable moment, at first.  Then because every relationship is in fact different, pace ourselves appropriately. 

Even jobs of every level offer training.  Yet, the one thing that we are all expected to do, which is marry, is barely spoken about in its entirety.   How we will educate ourselves will vary from person-to-person, but it must be done.  Once we have trained ourselves to know what love does and does not look like, finding Mr. or Mrs. Right will become easier.

*Posts you may enjoy are Difficult Relationships, Don't Fake It and Young Standards in Relationships.