Buying the Perfect Gift

Buying the perfect gift is easier than you might think. You may be surprised to know that it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with money. You already have what you need to accomplish this task. Once you learn this simple technique you will be able to apply it to anyone...if you're willing.

Picking the right gift consist of three simple things. Those things are time, conversation and attention to detail while listening. That's it! They are all you need.

1.  Time - Time is a factor because you need it to talk. Whether you accomplish it via a sit-down dinner or on the telephone is relevant. Do whatever best fits your life and the relationship.

2.  Conversation - Talking is necessary because this is where all the great gifts are hiding. Most people tell you what they like. They may not be thinking about presents when they do it, but it's still true. Think about it. A person that spends time around you usually knows at least the basic things you like.

For instance, lets say you have a coffee group at work. Everyone goes to the same place while you dash screaming, "I'm going to Starbucks!" Your daily behavior and words have told the coffee crew that you prefer Starbucks. This simple association tells them a Starbucks gift-card might be for you.

3.  Paying attention - This is where getting the perfect gift can be found. When you pay attention to what someone says they reveal things they like. Listen carefully to the type of stories they tell.  Often there is a fantastic suggestion in it. If the gift you hear is too expensive, find a way to simplify it by making it a picture or book, etc. Be creative.

The point is when you care enough to give a gift, it might as well be the right one. Have a couple of conversations with that person and listen to what they are telling you. In case you were wondering, I stumbled onto this technique while talking to my dad. He was told me about a show he loved as a child.


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